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moring all
i have so many things at home to get done before winter. but sunday i have to go to were i go huntting to put my stand back up and help the rest get there's ready. if i don't go i will not hear the end of it from them. robin ask me if i work today and i said yes. then she ask me if i was putting the last storm door on and i said no. because i have other things to get done like getting thing put away for the winter. i told her that i was going to get my deer stand ready sunday. i felt like i did some thing wrong. i can't keep doing thing for her. but she wants the door on. well i have to put my inlaws stand up to. but that is all right with her. you can't even get to it in the shed to get it. so today i will put the stuid storm door up so i don't have to lisen to it. if i don't get it done today i will finsh it tomarrow and not go to help with deer stand's. i feel like im as im between a rock and a hard place. the things i do to keep the peace are going to drive me nut's one day. i just got a call from my son. ask me if i can put the deer stand up because pappy call. my blood is boilling right know. i can't win. they think im a machine. well this helped alittle. time to crack up the radio.
have a good week end all
richard
thank you for lisen to me

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Rich,
Sorry you are having a bad day. Hang in there, it will get better. We all have these kind of days. :(
Would you like to run away with me ;) Wouldn't it be nice to just go out and sit under a tree and talk? To have a day away from everyone and just do nothing would be my idea of a vacation.
Granny

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hi granny.
im glad i have you hear. my son called again and i said i have things to do. i would love to run away with you. i think i have enough gas to make it to north carolina
have a wonderful week end granny :D :D
richard

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Rich,
I'm going to give you a minor ass whooping right now. So bear with it and take it like a man. Since this morning you have posted at 6:25, 7:03, 7:09, 7:37, 8:48, 9:11, 9:23, 9:25, 9:30, 9:56, 10:04, 10:15, 10:20 & 10:43.
In this time you could have made love to Robin, showered, gone out together for breakfast, put up the screen door, put up the deer stand and gone to work.
Now get off the computer and have a good day.
And I hope your arse isn't too sore.
XOXOXO

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Rich you are SO busted!

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Granny, I would LOVE to run away and sit under a tree and just sit there and watch the clouds. At this point I would love to be able to go pee without having someone knock on the bathroom door asking me where something is or some other stupid question.
Rich, a while back hubby and I had "problems" communicating. It felt like there was always something that needed to be done. We ended up doing a lot of arugueing because I didn't think he was "listening" to me. Here's what we did to make peace. We took a note pad and went through each room of the house, we wrote down everything that needed to be done, then we did the same thing outside, things like gutters, getting things ready for winter, everything we "together" could think of that needed to get done. Then we sat down went over the list and made up a list of the most important things that needed to come first, then there was the other things that could wait and be done when the weather was bad and we couldn't be outside. It was amazeing the things hubby thought he could put off, and I also saw that I wanted 10 tens done at once. We then worked off the list, checking things off as they got done. We kept the list on the fridge so we could see we were making progress. Granted the list never got completely done cause there was always something popping up that needed our attention.
Maybe if you and Robin made a list of everything that needs to be done just in the next month, she'd see that you could be working on the storm door BUT you couldn't do that cause you were busy putting up your inlaws deer stand. And you'd also have a idea of the stuff that needs to be done before the really cold weather hits. As a wife I know that sometimes I forget that hubby is only one person, just like he forgets I'm only one person. There's only so much a person can do in 24 hours. We both had to cut down on our play time like TV and being on the computer. There aren't any easy answers, you just do the best you can. Hang in there!!

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Rich,
I'm going to give you a minor ass whooping right now. So bear with it and take it like a man. Since this morning you have posted at 6:25, 7:03, 7:09, 7:37, 8:48, 9:11, 9:23, 9:25, 9:30, 9:56, 10:04, 10:15, 10:20 & 10:43.
In this time you could have made love to Robin, showered, gone out together for breakfast, put up the screen door, put up the deer stand and gone to work.
Now get off the computer and have a good day.
And I hope your arse isn't too sore.
XOXOXO
Annie :D :D
You forgot he is going to run away with Granny and sit under a tree!!!! ;) :p
Granny

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hello all
i think you miss under stand me. i left for work at 4:00 this moring. i can't get on the computer till 6. i got home at 12. i have been working on the storm door till now. i had to cut a 2 by 4 down 3 16' with a circyo saw. that was a treat. im going to dry dishes and get my shower. im tired and eat once today. i didn't get the door done. don't get mad at me. but i don't care. my finger crack form being out side.
have a wonderful night all
im sorry
richard

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hello all
i think you miss under stand me.
No offense Rich, but it's easy to misunderstand you. You obviously can't spell. I am not slamming you for that. Your mispelling makes it difficult for people to understand what you are trying to say. I have noticed that occasionally you spell really well, and other times I have to read your posts out loud to try and understand them.
I am curious, what job do you have that you can sit on the computer, posting here for 4 hours (Today) and get paid for it?
I worked 60 hours this week at my job, and I am on salary for 48 hours only. I would like to have internet access at work as you do.
I have some of the same problems that you have, but please stop posting here just to get sympathy from people. It's getting old. I am very close to not visiting this site any more. I am sick of all the whining.
I'll make my own decision, whether or not I stay, but do everyone a favor and confine your gripes to a whiner thread.
I doubt anyone is gonna miss me if I quit posting here, and that's fine, but you get treated like a little kid all the time, doesn't that bother you?

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your right scott, im a little kid. i make a company millions of dollar a year. to pertect this contry and don't get alot of pay. i have stuff that i do in irag and all over the world. you don't know me like i don't know you. but i don't feel that i need your shit. im were tired of you. you don't have to worry about me because i have had enough. you know your the only person one here that has every got under my skin. do you have pp like granny when you can't walk. do you know what it's like to walk with pain in you feet for 11 hours a day. you have no idea who i im. and i don't care who you are. maybe people like me because im not a jac---s. have a wonderful day and by.
richard :mad:
ps i would love to tell you what i think. but there are kids on here.
pss can you under stand me. the 2 year old

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did you every try to help some one on here or do you get a kick out of bring some one down. thank you for making my day. i have some letters on my key borad that don't work no more. have a great life

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im sorry to all of you who read this. but he got under my skin for the last time. maybe im wrong but i don't need him. i do my best to keep the peace but he has cross my line for the last time.
have a good night all
richard

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Scott I for one.... ENJOY reading Rich's POSTS..... he is ALWAYS there to lend some one an ear and always has WONDERFUL advice and and ALWAYS caring heart... For you to come on here and try to bring him on down makes me SICK! I as well as many people have a hard time spelling and WHAT does that have to do with GETTING SUPPORT.... If you dont want to hear people Whining which I LOVE TO DO... Then dont READ.... and for you Rich you keep on doing what you have been doing because you are a WONDERFUL person!!!!! Dont let anyone EVER ruin your day because of ignorance!!!!!

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SCOTT,,,,VERY,,VERY,,,UN-CALLED FOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WILL NOT SAY ANYTHING ELSE. SPELLING HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I agree
We love Rich and we all try to help each other. And we just try to have some fun along the way.
Scott,
We love you, too. :)
I know that Rich's feet hurt really bad and sometimes it makes us cranky. And some days we spend a lot of time at our computers.
Heck, I'd rather be sewing, but I can't even put my foot on the pedal of my sewing machine. I can't get out and go places like I would like, so my husband bought me this TOY. But it works for me too. I am on it a lot because I am writing a book about our family history.
Be calm, OK?
Granny

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You are right Rich, I don't know you. Everything I do know about you is what I read on here. I know that you are kind, I never see you ripping on anyone for anything. I also know that you have alot of people here that care what you think and how you feel.
I also know that those people that care about you, give you neverending advice and support for all the issues you have.
I have my issues, you have yours, hell, we all have issues of some kind or another. I would love to have people in my life that would talk to me and give me the advice that you get here daily. I am jealous of you in that respect. And that is why you irritate me so much. You gripe and people say they love you and give you damn good advice. Then you don't take that advice, and then complain more.
Likewise Rich, You are the only person here that gets under my skin. And that is why I am saying this stuff. Take the advice of these people, and do something about it.
I don't get a kick out of bringing anyone down. But I have to respond to this :
RichJ (i have some letters on my key borad that don't work no more. have a great life)
"your right scott, im a little kid. i make a company millions of dollar a year. to pertect this contry and don't get alot of pay. i have stuff that i do in irag and all over the world. you don't know me like i don't know you. but i don't feel that i need your shit. im were tired of you. you don't have to worry about me because i have had enough. you know your the only person one here that has every got under my skin. do you have pp like granny when you can't walk. do you know what it's like to walk with pain in you feet for 11 hours a day. you have no idea who i im. and i don't care who you are. maybe people like me because im not a jac---s. have a wonderful day and by.
richard
ps i would love to tell you what i think. but there are kids on here.
pss can you under stand me. the 2 year old"
You used every letter except Q, X, and Z in that post.
If you are gonna complain about a problem, expect people to give you advice. If you complain about the same things for months after disreguarding all the advice, don't be suprised if others get tired of hearing it and do some complaining.

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Likewise Rich, You are the only person here that gets under my skin. And that is why I am saying this stuff. Take the advice of these people, and do something about it. Like everyone else, Richard comes here for friendship and support. Since he annoys you so much, don't read his posts. There's no need to insult him or to hurt his feelings (or anyone else's for that matter) or to start an argument. (Either you don't care or you have no idea how these responses are making you look. Hint: It's not a nice picture.) I have a policy of putting those posters who annoy me -- for any reason -- on my ignore list. That way I never have to read their posts. I may miss a plea for help, but that's the way it goes. Since Richard's posts annoy you so much, I suggest that you put him on your ignore list.
Mike
P.S. Richard: You might want to consider adding Scott to your ignore list.

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Rich you may call me anytime you want, if you don't still have my number, i sent it to you again on a pm.
And....you feel free to vent anytime you need to. I know you are a nice man and it is hard to do what Mike just suggested but maybe it is time to do that for a while for your best interrests.

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Richard you are welcome here anytime day or night. You are an important member of these boards. We want you here and we need you here!
Al I can say to youis take a deep breath. You are intittled to take a break and enjoy yourself once in awhile. You work hard and are a lving husband and devoted frather but sometimes you need time for you. Take a breakif you need one, the work will get done.
Enjoy life a little.
Mitch

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Good Morning!
Well, my first response to reading through this thread was to stop reading and hit "Reply" then I was going spout off and who knows what kind of tangent I would have gone on.
Im glad I did continue to read on, because what I read was not so much malice when all was said and done.
ScottM, This is probably the most loving, most FORGIVING group of people you would ever want to meet. Having said that, and having had read your resentment for RichJ stems from jelousy- the true root of your resentment... I will advise you to rather than attack him for whatever YOU deem his inadaquicies (ie: spelling; cough-cough) Share your own reasons for what brings you here to the boards. Our home. Your home. You will be welcomed, loved and counceled with open arms if you come seeking support and offering support.
If you are angered over something, chances are- its not over someone here, rather; as you stated before- jelousy.
Its a fine group in here, one you are welcomed into... I look forward to learning of who you are and whats going on. I hope you read this in the light of which it is written and allow your guard down and seek out the many friendships that are available to you here.
Best,
MelissaLynn
P.S. RichJ if you get a big one this year, can you send me some Venicin? I love to make "Bambi Stew" (yes, we REALLY do call it that, in my family!!)
xoxo

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hi scott if you are jealous of me. that is no reason to attack me. the letters on my key borad that you talk about are the ones that i broke yesterday. because of you. i have never been so mad at some one in a long time. i will forgive any one. that mean's you to. but maybe if you tell some one that you care they mite care for you. give it a try. it mite work for you. as for the advise i have been given. i don't know what i haven followed. i went to a new derm and a rhemy to. if it was not for this place i would never went. this place is my olny place to vent and come for help. that can under stand me.
im not perfect like you. think of other people will you and not your self. if you won't you can have my lelf over's like my father inlaw is doing.
have a great day my friend
richard

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lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean about your father-in-law,,,,lol

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I am sorry to all of you for causing all this turmoil. Rich, I shouldn't have vented on you like that, I am sorry.

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I am sorry to all of you for causing all this turmoil. Rich, I shouldn't have vented on you like that, I am sorry.
See, Scott, I knew that there was a nice guy in there somewhere. :D
I think you were having a bad day!!!
Granny

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