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i don't know what to do for sure but im tired of bustting my a--around home and getting nothing in return. i can't keep going this way. it's no good for me or my family. o i can't forget my p like i can. im tried of being used to. i love my wife so much why can't she get that. she is a great mom. if i deside to leave who wound want me. i shoundn't have said this but i will live with what i said.
if there is a thing called a life crices im in it. if not i don't know.
i need room but don't know were to find it.
i just don't know what to do any more.
i wound love to go back 3 years ago. things were so much better. maybe 3 years from now they will be to.
yours all have help me with my p and been there for me now im going to do what i can to get robin under stand the house thing and fall in love with me again. i hope it works. i will try.
if all works i won't be her for a wile.
well that didn't last long. i can stay away from here because i love this place and all the people here.
ps i hope you can under stand all this.
richard lol
Hang in there Rich. I know things haven't been going your way lately. Give me a call if you want to talk about it.
Steve
Yeah. Hang in there. This is life. It's filled with highs and it's filled with lows. Right now you're visiting the valley... climb on back up to the mountain. If you need a hand... here... grab mine.
Life is never static... It's ALWAYS going to be filled with wonder and awe and happiness beyond measure and... it's also going to be filled with despair, helplessness and overwhelming sadness. Time helps and heals. Visit the boards and know you have friends who care...
Joe
Rich,
I don't know your whole situation (who works/who doesn't, kids? how many? how old?...who does what house work...etc) so it's hard to try and help put things into perspective. I can say, though, that like Joe and Steve said...hang in there. Life is never perfect and it's hard to get through the really tough times when the really good times are what we think about and hope for. It can all be worked through, but it does take a good amount of effort and diligence. Sometimes family vacations can help ease some of the stress, something simple like a camping trip can do a lot of good. Good luck to you!
thanks for the hand steve and joe. this place lets me put my feeling down that i counld not tell some one face to face. that helps me alot when im getting down. thank you to chaimfl.
thank yours again
richard
Rich, I'm sorry but I really don't understand your situation so I can't help in the advice department...................but I want you to know that I am thinking of you and hoping today is a betterday.
Joe, I loved your message, great words of wisdom. :)
Hi Rich,
I have been married nearly 30 years and I have found marriage does have its ups and down...
It is very hard to be married at times even though you love one another very much....
Just hang in there and hopefully things will get better for you!
My best wishes to you and your family!
:)
Deb
thanks deb
marriage is work. we will make it. robin just ran to get me the same door nob to put on the back door that the guys adding on said don't work. because they broke it. i will put it on and leave the broken one for them to see monday. i'm getting tried of see her disapointed with what this guys do to the house. i think i will be here monday moring.
i need a vac.
thank you all for careing so much.
love you all richard
Rich,
Hang on to your family no matter what!!! You will not regret it. I promise you that. I have the same house stuff going on at home but my boyfriend / common law husband does everything and I am starting to hate this house. It is hard to explain and I don't know what all is going on but I do know that some times we just misunderstand eachother. Just remember - When it comes to your family and Love don't give up without a fight. If someone gives up on you don't worry you will find someone whether you have p or not. I promise you that too.
Melissa
i keep trying but is hard to climb mountain when some one or thing keeps pulling you down. i will not give up. i will see it all though no matter what.
richard
Just getting around to reading this thread - you all are so amazing. Rich - I do hope you're hanging in there. The love and support around here is almost more than I can bare... feeling so emotional (and grateful to have you all - the ups and downs) this morning. It just fills me up.
Hey there Rich,
I'm sorry to hear you and Robin are having problems. I only talked to her for a little while after the dinner, but she seemed so sweet and happy! I was thinking to myself, "what a nice young couple they make!" nk Hang in there!!!
It's only 15 days till our 23rd Anniversary. :) We've had our ups and downs over the years (including appreciation issues) but have always managed to work things out and I know you can too!
I don't have any magical advice that will definitely help, but I will say this. Please never make an important decision, when you are angry. ;)
Thinking of you both.....
Barbara
if there is a thing called a life crices im in it. if not i don't know.
i need room but don't know were to find it.
i just don't know what to do any more.
i wound love to go back 3 years ago. things were so much better. maybe 3 years from now they will be to.
yours all have help me with my p and been there for me now im going to do what i can to get robin under stand the house thing and fall in love with me again. i hope it works. i will try.
if all works i won't be her for a wile.
well that didn't last long. i can stay away from here because i love this place and all the people here.
ps i hope you can under stand all this.
richard lol
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Hang in there Rich. I know things haven't been going your way lately. Give me a call if you want to talk about it.
Steve
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Yeah. Hang in there. This is life. It's filled with highs and it's filled with lows. Right now you're visiting the valley... climb on back up to the mountain. If you need a hand... here... grab mine.
Life is never static... It's ALWAYS going to be filled with wonder and awe and happiness beyond measure and... it's also going to be filled with despair, helplessness and overwhelming sadness. Time helps and heals. Visit the boards and know you have friends who care...
Joe
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Rich,
I don't know your whole situation (who works/who doesn't, kids? how many? how old?...who does what house work...etc) so it's hard to try and help put things into perspective. I can say, though, that like Joe and Steve said...hang in there. Life is never perfect and it's hard to get through the really tough times when the really good times are what we think about and hope for. It can all be worked through, but it does take a good amount of effort and diligence. Sometimes family vacations can help ease some of the stress, something simple like a camping trip can do a lot of good. Good luck to you!
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thanks for the hand steve and joe. this place lets me put my feeling down that i counld not tell some one face to face. that helps me alot when im getting down. thank you to chaimfl.
thank yours again
richard
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Rich, I'm sorry but I really don't understand your situation so I can't help in the advice department...................but I want you to know that I am thinking of you and hoping today is a betterday.
Joe, I loved your message, great words of wisdom. :)
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Hi Rich,
I have been married nearly 30 years and I have found marriage does have its ups and down...
It is very hard to be married at times even though you love one another very much....
Just hang in there and hopefully things will get better for you!
My best wishes to you and your family!
:)
Deb
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thanks deb
marriage is work. we will make it. robin just ran to get me the same door nob to put on the back door that the guys adding on said don't work. because they broke it. i will put it on and leave the broken one for them to see monday. i'm getting tried of see her disapointed with what this guys do to the house. i think i will be here monday moring.
i need a vac.
thank you all for careing so much.
love you all richard
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Rich,
Hang on to your family no matter what!!! You will not regret it. I promise you that. I have the same house stuff going on at home but my boyfriend / common law husband does everything and I am starting to hate this house. It is hard to explain and I don't know what all is going on but I do know that some times we just misunderstand eachother. Just remember - When it comes to your family and Love don't give up without a fight. If someone gives up on you don't worry you will find someone whether you have p or not. I promise you that too.
Melissa
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i keep trying but is hard to climb mountain when some one or thing keeps pulling you down. i will not give up. i will see it all though no matter what.
richard
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Just getting around to reading this thread - you all are so amazing. Rich - I do hope you're hanging in there. The love and support around here is almost more than I can bare... feeling so emotional (and grateful to have you all - the ups and downs) this morning. It just fills me up.
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Hey there Rich,
I'm sorry to hear you and Robin are having problems. I only talked to her for a little while after the dinner, but she seemed so sweet and happy! I was thinking to myself, "what a nice young couple they make!" nk Hang in there!!!
It's only 15 days till our 23rd Anniversary. :) We've had our ups and downs over the years (including appreciation issues) but have always managed to work things out and I know you can too!
I don't have any magical advice that will definitely help, but I will say this. Please never make an important decision, when you are angry. ;)
Thinking of you both.....
Barbara
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