Question:
I don't know wheter to scream or cry. I'm so angry. My best friend since grade school wrote a journal entry on the Internet about the night me and my gf put him through hell, or so he says. He described it as me being a loser and my gf being a bitch. And if that's not all, total strangers posted their comments about me and her like they knew us! I found it last night on the computer. He even used our real names too! You'd think he'd make up something! Well, I PMed him at another forum about how he should apologize to me for writing it since I apologized for putting him through that night. OK, I DID make him go even though he didn't want to. BUt still, you don't post journal entries about someone if they're going to find it and write it with contempt! I'm not even going to tell my gf about this. Anyway, I got the reply this morning and he's not going to apologize for: "MY opinion in MY journal." He also wrote that he's not angry at me, so I guess he hates my gf, then. I mean, if you saw them that night, they were at each other's throats. What sould I do? I'm thinking of meeting up with him. We could discuss this like mature people, but I think he needs to apolgize. What do you think, guys?
And thanks for listening to this LONG rant! Sorry about this!
(My gf and now me. Why do people do this to us?)
That is a shame that he would do such a thing. It is a complete disreagar for your feelings and not how a good friend behaves. Sorry you had to see it. That stinks. I would be careful how I interact with him in the future.
Mitch
i agree with mitch. he don't sound like a true friend to me.
try and have a good day all
richard
If he was your friend he would accept your gf because you like/love her.
Thanks. You all are right. But I don't just leave it alone and go on. I believe in second chances, and plus he's one of my closest friends. He should have just kept his feelings to himself and not post them on the internet like he did. But that was months ago and he's not angry at me like I thought.
so i may sound like a #1 bish for saying this. But im a FAN of journals as well as an active net-journalist myself. Writing about your day or your feelings is what its all about. You'd rather him keep his feelings to himself, so he's not allowed to be angry even though you admit you were WRONG? Its the internet, even if people read it, what are the chances of them knowing who you are? Maybe you're just more well known on the net then i am *shrugs*
Regardless, one of my biggest pet peeves, is when someone tell me i shouldnt write something or i should keep something to myself because it could potentially hurt another person. And what of that other person who hurt me? Oh right, im suppose to keep it to myself.
I have a journal, i dont use names, only because i dont want people to know who i really am. I write because rather then shouting and screaming at people in reality, i can shout and scream online, then its all done.
And thanks for listening to this LONG rant! Sorry about this!
(My gf and now me. Why do people do this to us?)
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That is a shame that he would do such a thing. It is a complete disreagar for your feelings and not how a good friend behaves. Sorry you had to see it. That stinks. I would be careful how I interact with him in the future.
Mitch
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i agree with mitch. he don't sound like a true friend to me.
try and have a good day all
richard
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If he was your friend he would accept your gf because you like/love her.
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Thanks. You all are right. But I don't just leave it alone and go on. I believe in second chances, and plus he's one of my closest friends. He should have just kept his feelings to himself and not post them on the internet like he did. But that was months ago and he's not angry at me like I thought.
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so i may sound like a #1 bish for saying this. But im a FAN of journals as well as an active net-journalist myself. Writing about your day or your feelings is what its all about. You'd rather him keep his feelings to himself, so he's not allowed to be angry even though you admit you were WRONG? Its the internet, even if people read it, what are the chances of them knowing who you are? Maybe you're just more well known on the net then i am *shrugs*
Regardless, one of my biggest pet peeves, is when someone tell me i shouldnt write something or i should keep something to myself because it could potentially hurt another person. And what of that other person who hurt me? Oh right, im suppose to keep it to myself.
I have a journal, i dont use names, only because i dont want people to know who i really am. I write because rather then shouting and screaming at people in reality, i can shout and scream online, then its all done.
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