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i have to many wonderful friends on here from every old thread thing that is all together now to say much more. all i tried to do was help get there thread places back. so that they had there places to talk. but im helping to rock the boat. so i will no longer do it. i said about people fighting and i told there not. well it look's like it to me. i see so much going on here but don't like that poeple are not getting there answers that they are asking. work does the same thing to me. i can't smoke at work and that was a big change for me. but it helped me alot. i respect the boss telling me what to do. that is his job and mine to lisen to. even if i don't think it's right. the npf dose many more things for us then watching the borad and im very greatful that they help so many. i do my best to help the people on here try to have a good day because that's about all i can do. im not as good as alot are
have a good night all
richard
You are not causing any trouble, and if you are feeling pressure because you've been asked to "pick sides", that's not what all this is about,. people can disagree without fighting.
The NPF has caused this...NOT ANY OF US. Their change uprooted alot of people, caused people to stress, and now their ignoring our pleas is causing more distress......we are not causing it to each other. They refuse to hear us on any level, refuse to return phone calls, refuse to return emails. How can that not make people here feel alienated?
YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS....nor am I or anyone else., ACCEPT the moderators at the NPF. People are jumpy here, people are stressed, people are reacting, but it does not mean we don't care for each other, it does not mean we have not formed long lasting bonds here. In fact, these are the reasons everyone is reacting the way they are because we all feel like our bonds were threatened, made difficult, and something was taken from us and we had no voice or choice about it. Many of us came here everyday while we lived as shut inns. You and Polly know that my entire winter was lived as a shut in-the only relief I got was this forum.
I don't know what else to say to the moderators short of what I have already said to get them to see the truth and the err of their ways, they refuse to listen. THEY HAVE TURNED A DEAF EAR ON US, and what's affecting us is just that...THE DEAF EAR. many of us have had the deaf ears of so many during the coarse of this disease that we never expected to get it here, and yet this is what happened.
You have been nothing but kind to everyone here...you are the consummate cheer leader for us all. You have helped so very many people....Never forget that my freind, and please, do not take on responsibility for something you had/have no control over. Your too good of a person to bite and try to chew this much. Believe me.....the thanks for that belongs soley to the moderators, and no one else., only I don't see that they want to admit that. It's not your monkey my freind.
Elaine
Elaine
Rich, I second what Elaine has said. She said it better than I could have. Your postings were some of the first I read, and you have always had a kind word for everyone. If feelings are a little touchy here now, it is just because so many people have been hurt by the moderators. We have been hurt, ignored and made to feel unwelcome by them, not by you. You were one of the first to welcome me, and I always look forward to your "good night" note.
You stay strong, and know your are cared for by your friends here.
Blessings,
GMom
Rich,
Unfortunately, things can get "heated" around here and emotions sometimes run high. YOU, however, my dear friend, are always there to lend an ear, lend support or just "listen". And you certainly never start any trouble! You, Rich, always seem to be the voice of reason. More than stating your "opinons", you simply state your "feelings". And know what? You are ALWAYS right on the money! The best part is you always manage to say something without pointing or a finger or accusing anyone of anything! I am honored to know you and you have lifted my mood (and helped me) more than once! Don't EVER, EVER, EVER stop doing that here. We need more like you!
Love,
Nancy
Rich,
Nancy has said my feeling too!
Take care, my friend,
Sandy
hi nancy, elaine, gmom and sandy,
i thank you for caring. you are wonderful people who im glad to have meet. you are right about so many things but i had to give it a break. because of what was done on the board. i could not read the pain that this has made to those that have pa. they lost a place like there 2 home (to me it was like the hole borad). were they could care for each other. it's not fun to have pain and have some thing give you more pain and make you feel lost. i have the best friends in the world on here acting like it was nothing about your lost of your place. maybe they were right. i don't know for sure and no one would answers there ? (people with pa). i just got to the point that it was like work. i could not help any one because no one was lisening and people were telling me to live with it. well i will try i guess. i have no chose. to me it's a shame that the pa spot is gone but i will live with that. but was dose the change do to there lives.
beatting a dead horse is done for me and that's not some thing to say any way.
have a great night all
richard
ps im sorry that i every said any thing
You have no reason to be sorry. You just care too much for people's feelings. I know all this hurts you, but know that by everything you give to this board, you are making things a little less painful for people.
So keep up what you've been doing.
Patty
Ritch, I think I may just adopt you! Can always use a new grandkid, especially one with such a big heart.
blessings and love,
GMom
Ritch, I think I may just adopt you! Can always use a new grandkid, especially one with such a big heart.
blessings and love,
GMom
hi gmom,
thank you and yes you can adopt me. my friend
hi patty,
thank you and i will keep tring to help the people on here the only way i know how to and that's through my heart. were all truth come's from.
have a good night all
love richard.
rich, look at all the responses youve gotten. everyone here loves you and dont ever forget that! you are very helpful and caring and this board would be nothing without you!
P Love!
- mariah
have a good night all
richard
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You are not causing any trouble, and if you are feeling pressure because you've been asked to "pick sides", that's not what all this is about,. people can disagree without fighting.
The NPF has caused this...NOT ANY OF US. Their change uprooted alot of people, caused people to stress, and now their ignoring our pleas is causing more distress......we are not causing it to each other. They refuse to hear us on any level, refuse to return phone calls, refuse to return emails. How can that not make people here feel alienated?
YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS....nor am I or anyone else., ACCEPT the moderators at the NPF. People are jumpy here, people are stressed, people are reacting, but it does not mean we don't care for each other, it does not mean we have not formed long lasting bonds here. In fact, these are the reasons everyone is reacting the way they are because we all feel like our bonds were threatened, made difficult, and something was taken from us and we had no voice or choice about it. Many of us came here everyday while we lived as shut inns. You and Polly know that my entire winter was lived as a shut in-the only relief I got was this forum.
I don't know what else to say to the moderators short of what I have already said to get them to see the truth and the err of their ways, they refuse to listen. THEY HAVE TURNED A DEAF EAR ON US, and what's affecting us is just that...THE DEAF EAR. many of us have had the deaf ears of so many during the coarse of this disease that we never expected to get it here, and yet this is what happened.
You have been nothing but kind to everyone here...you are the consummate cheer leader for us all. You have helped so very many people....Never forget that my freind, and please, do not take on responsibility for something you had/have no control over. Your too good of a person to bite and try to chew this much. Believe me.....the thanks for that belongs soley to the moderators, and no one else., only I don't see that they want to admit that. It's not your monkey my freind.
Elaine
Elaine
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Rich, I second what Elaine has said. She said it better than I could have. Your postings were some of the first I read, and you have always had a kind word for everyone. If feelings are a little touchy here now, it is just because so many people have been hurt by the moderators. We have been hurt, ignored and made to feel unwelcome by them, not by you. You were one of the first to welcome me, and I always look forward to your "good night" note.
You stay strong, and know your are cared for by your friends here.
Blessings,
GMom
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Rich,
Unfortunately, things can get "heated" around here and emotions sometimes run high. YOU, however, my dear friend, are always there to lend an ear, lend support or just "listen". And you certainly never start any trouble! You, Rich, always seem to be the voice of reason. More than stating your "opinons", you simply state your "feelings". And know what? You are ALWAYS right on the money! The best part is you always manage to say something without pointing or a finger or accusing anyone of anything! I am honored to know you and you have lifted my mood (and helped me) more than once! Don't EVER, EVER, EVER stop doing that here. We need more like you!
Love,
Nancy
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Rich,
Nancy has said my feeling too!
Take care, my friend,
Sandy
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hi nancy, elaine, gmom and sandy,
i thank you for caring. you are wonderful people who im glad to have meet. you are right about so many things but i had to give it a break. because of what was done on the board. i could not read the pain that this has made to those that have pa. they lost a place like there 2 home (to me it was like the hole borad). were they could care for each other. it's not fun to have pain and have some thing give you more pain and make you feel lost. i have the best friends in the world on here acting like it was nothing about your lost of your place. maybe they were right. i don't know for sure and no one would answers there ? (people with pa). i just got to the point that it was like work. i could not help any one because no one was lisening and people were telling me to live with it. well i will try i guess. i have no chose. to me it's a shame that the pa spot is gone but i will live with that. but was dose the change do to there lives.
beatting a dead horse is done for me and that's not some thing to say any way.
have a great night all
richard
ps im sorry that i every said any thing
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You have no reason to be sorry. You just care too much for people's feelings. I know all this hurts you, but know that by everything you give to this board, you are making things a little less painful for people.
So keep up what you've been doing.
Patty
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Ritch, I think I may just adopt you! Can always use a new grandkid, especially one with such a big heart.
blessings and love,
GMom
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Ritch, I think I may just adopt you! Can always use a new grandkid, especially one with such a big heart.
blessings and love,
GMom
hi gmom,
thank you and yes you can adopt me. my friend
hi patty,
thank you and i will keep tring to help the people on here the only way i know how to and that's through my heart. were all truth come's from.
have a good night all
love richard.
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rich, look at all the responses youve gotten. everyone here loves you and dont ever forget that! you are very helpful and caring and this board would be nothing without you!
P Love!
- mariah
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