Question:
Dear friends
Does anyone know how to mend a broken heart as the pain is unbearable.
Love Kay
Only Time Kay. Thats all I know. Hang in their sweetie its gotta get better.
Patty
Kay-
Wat happened?? Stay strong.
x0x
*Nemo*
Oh, Kay! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through such a rough time. :( I'm here if you need me. I'll send you a PM later on today.
Mike
Thanks all
Just felt a bit down tonight - marriage trauma - may not be over but still very painful when you are on the recieving end of it.
Always thought it happened to other people!!!! Aint that always the way.
Its very late and I should go to bed. Maybe tomorrow will be better.
Just hope it all works out for the best.
Thanks again
Love Kay
So sorry to hear of your difficult times. My sister has been going through rough times for the last 6+ months. I keep sending her uplifting quotes and would be happy to send them along to you as well. Just PM your email address to me.
Wish I could do more-
Just remember:
With God's help, good cheer permits us to rise above the depressing present or difficult circumstances. It is a process of positive reassurance and reinforcement. It is sunshine when clouds block the light.
Marvin J. Ashton
Kay,
I feel for you. Although I do not know exactly how you feel right now, I have a pretty good idea. After 23 years of marriage, mine ended. I was devastated to say the least. I lost over 100 lbs due to the depression of it. But, you know, it does get better (I didn't believe it either). Sometimes it may not feel like your going to make it, or that light at the end of the tunnel seems to be so far away. I had a lot of good long cries, I sought refudge in freinds, family and my Faith. Just know that open hearts, strong shoulders and big ears are here whenever you feel like you need a friend.
Be Well,
Dave
Kay,
I'm so sorry to hear the troubles you are going thru right now. I hope things are better tomorrow. Know that we are all thinking of you.
Take care,
Sandy
hi kay,
i don't know what to say that will help only that things will get better. it mite take time but it will. i miss kyle so much but soon i will be around him all the time again. it just takes time for things to work out right. i pray that it will for you to. thinking of you. i wish you the best
try and have a good night
richard
Kay,
I'm so sorry to here what you are going through. I can feel your pain. I hope you can work through these tough times. No matter what happens you will be ok. We are all here for you if you need someone to talk to. I hope you feel better in the morning. I will be praying for you.
Polly
Sorry to hear about this Kay. I've had my heart broken a lot of times before. Sometimes you just have to harden it before you can open up again... pain sucks!
Thanks all
Just really not in a good place right now. Its not my husbands fault. he has just collapsed under the stress of outside forces, work , his dad is dying and he just feels as though his whole life is rubbish. I think he feels he needs to start over and that life will be better without me. Not sure if that is true or the depression talking but I am finding hard just to cope with helping him get better and dealing with the pain he has dealt me which I dont think he can see and not sure if he cares. He can only deal with himself at the moment and I have to try and deal with everything else. Its hard putting a brave face to the world when all you want to do is stay in bed all day. He has gone away for a few days which has just left me feeling abandoned.
We have been married for 15 years on Thursday.
Thanks for all your support. I know only time will help but it just seems to get harder every day at the moment.
All my love
Kay
read up if i understand what you are saying . i went thru a 2 year disaster but came out on the other side brand new. lucky my loveones hung in there .
theres a websight called his crisis look it up and mabe it will help you understand .and if you have any question on what was going on with me .i would be more then happy to help . both my parents died and i had to deal with childhood issues all at the same time and my loved ones suffered bigtime.
but now im happer then ever befor in my life .good luck and dont be to ready to thro the towel in to early.
Kay,
I too am suffering from a broken heart. My love of two and a half years left me just two weeks ago and it was a complete blindside for me - I had no idea it was going to happen and never saw it coming. He left me because of my psoriasis - said he's not attracted to me anymore. It was a real stab into my heart and it really knocked me to the ground. I have been struggling with missing him terribly some days, and other days I feel great and very optimistic for my future. I started to read a book called "How To Survive The Loss of A Love". It is a very helpful book. I also started to read another book called "How To Get Over A Breakup" that has been even more helpful and informative. I would recommend both of them to you. If you want more info - PM me. Hang in there... I sympathize with your pain.
:)
Thanks to all of you
Last night was awful and I woke up feeling pretty bad to but had a long chat with my husband on the phone and we both feel a lot better after it. He is a good man and I know he is really trying to cope for all our sakes but is just really struggling.
I am so glad I have you all - life can just be very hard and very cruel sometimes and talking always helps.
Thanks for listening
Love Kay
Kay,
I am sorry for your troubles please hang in there and let this wonderful group of people provide you with the support you need now.
Robert
hi kay,
i hope you are feeling alittle better. talking about things is alot better then keeping them in side. well i always feel that way. i don't know if it's right or wrong. time heals all things. it just might take longer then we like but we just have to try to make it though. i wish you the best and hope and pray that things all work out.
try and have a good night. i know it can be hard but we all can do it.
richard
Dear friends
Just you let you know that things are a lot better here, at the moment anyway. We are talking a lot more and he seems a bit better. Not sure if it is the medication but he seems happier.
Thanks for all your support - it sure does help.
Lots of love
Kay
Kay,
I'm glad things are going better for you. I hope the two of you can work through it. I wish you the best!!!
Polly
Does anyone know how to mend a broken heart as the pain is unbearable.
Love Kay
Answers:
Only Time Kay. Thats all I know. Hang in their sweetie its gotta get better.
Patty
Answers:
Kay-
Wat happened?? Stay strong.
x0x
*Nemo*
Answers:
Oh, Kay! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through such a rough time. :( I'm here if you need me. I'll send you a PM later on today.
Mike
Answers:
Thanks all
Just felt a bit down tonight - marriage trauma - may not be over but still very painful when you are on the recieving end of it.
Always thought it happened to other people!!!! Aint that always the way.
Its very late and I should go to bed. Maybe tomorrow will be better.
Just hope it all works out for the best.
Thanks again
Love Kay
Answers:
So sorry to hear of your difficult times. My sister has been going through rough times for the last 6+ months. I keep sending her uplifting quotes and would be happy to send them along to you as well. Just PM your email address to me.
Wish I could do more-
Just remember:
With God's help, good cheer permits us to rise above the depressing present or difficult circumstances. It is a process of positive reassurance and reinforcement. It is sunshine when clouds block the light.
Marvin J. Ashton
Answers:
Kay,
I feel for you. Although I do not know exactly how you feel right now, I have a pretty good idea. After 23 years of marriage, mine ended. I was devastated to say the least. I lost over 100 lbs due to the depression of it. But, you know, it does get better (I didn't believe it either). Sometimes it may not feel like your going to make it, or that light at the end of the tunnel seems to be so far away. I had a lot of good long cries, I sought refudge in freinds, family and my Faith. Just know that open hearts, strong shoulders and big ears are here whenever you feel like you need a friend.
Be Well,
Dave
Answers:
Kay,
I'm so sorry to hear the troubles you are going thru right now. I hope things are better tomorrow. Know that we are all thinking of you.
Take care,
Sandy
Answers:
hi kay,
i don't know what to say that will help only that things will get better. it mite take time but it will. i miss kyle so much but soon i will be around him all the time again. it just takes time for things to work out right. i pray that it will for you to. thinking of you. i wish you the best
try and have a good night
richard
Answers:
Kay,
I'm so sorry to here what you are going through. I can feel your pain. I hope you can work through these tough times. No matter what happens you will be ok. We are all here for you if you need someone to talk to. I hope you feel better in the morning. I will be praying for you.
Polly
Answers:
Sorry to hear about this Kay. I've had my heart broken a lot of times before. Sometimes you just have to harden it before you can open up again... pain sucks!
Answers:
Thanks all
Just really not in a good place right now. Its not my husbands fault. he has just collapsed under the stress of outside forces, work , his dad is dying and he just feels as though his whole life is rubbish. I think he feels he needs to start over and that life will be better without me. Not sure if that is true or the depression talking but I am finding hard just to cope with helping him get better and dealing with the pain he has dealt me which I dont think he can see and not sure if he cares. He can only deal with himself at the moment and I have to try and deal with everything else. Its hard putting a brave face to the world when all you want to do is stay in bed all day. He has gone away for a few days which has just left me feeling abandoned.
We have been married for 15 years on Thursday.
Thanks for all your support. I know only time will help but it just seems to get harder every day at the moment.
All my love
Kay
Answers:
read up if i understand what you are saying . i went thru a 2 year disaster but came out on the other side brand new. lucky my loveones hung in there .
theres a websight called his crisis look it up and mabe it will help you understand .and if you have any question on what was going on with me .i would be more then happy to help . both my parents died and i had to deal with childhood issues all at the same time and my loved ones suffered bigtime.
but now im happer then ever befor in my life .good luck and dont be to ready to thro the towel in to early.
Answers:
Kay,
I too am suffering from a broken heart. My love of two and a half years left me just two weeks ago and it was a complete blindside for me - I had no idea it was going to happen and never saw it coming. He left me because of my psoriasis - said he's not attracted to me anymore. It was a real stab into my heart and it really knocked me to the ground. I have been struggling with missing him terribly some days, and other days I feel great and very optimistic for my future. I started to read a book called "How To Survive The Loss of A Love". It is a very helpful book. I also started to read another book called "How To Get Over A Breakup" that has been even more helpful and informative. I would recommend both of them to you. If you want more info - PM me. Hang in there... I sympathize with your pain.
:)
Answers:
Thanks to all of you
Last night was awful and I woke up feeling pretty bad to but had a long chat with my husband on the phone and we both feel a lot better after it. He is a good man and I know he is really trying to cope for all our sakes but is just really struggling.
I am so glad I have you all - life can just be very hard and very cruel sometimes and talking always helps.
Thanks for listening
Love Kay
Answers:
Kay,
I am sorry for your troubles please hang in there and let this wonderful group of people provide you with the support you need now.
Robert
Answers:
hi kay,
i hope you are feeling alittle better. talking about things is alot better then keeping them in side. well i always feel that way. i don't know if it's right or wrong. time heals all things. it just might take longer then we like but we just have to try to make it though. i wish you the best and hope and pray that things all work out.
try and have a good night. i know it can be hard but we all can do it.
richard
Answers:
Dear friends
Just you let you know that things are a lot better here, at the moment anyway. We are talking a lot more and he seems a bit better. Not sure if it is the medication but he seems happier.
Thanks for all your support - it sure does help.
Lots of love
Kay
Answers:
Kay,
I'm glad things are going better for you. I hope the two of you can work through it. I wish you the best!!!
Polly
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